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Did you know ...

  • 75% of miscarriages happen in the first three weeks before most women know they are pregnant.

  • 10% happen between weeks 3-6

  • 5% happen between weeks 6-12

  • 3% happen between weeks 12-20

  • 1% are stillbirths between weeks 20-42

        (These rates increase in additional pregnancies.)

  • 1 in every 4 mothers will experience the loss of a child or children.

 

These statistics are not to scare you. It is important for those mothers who have lost their children to know that they are not alone.

The important of counting kicks ...

Being attentive to your baby’s movements will help you notice any significant changes. Setting aside time every day when you know your baby is active to count kicks, swishes, rolls, and jabs may help identify potential problems and could help prevent stillbirth. Though strongly recommended for high risk pregnancies, counting fetal movements beginning at 28 weeksmay be beneficial for all pregnancies.

 

Generally, moms find their babies are most active after eating a meal or something sweet, drinking something very cold, or after physical activity. You may also find your baby to be more active between 9:00 pm and 1:00 am, as your blood sugar level is declining.

Taking time to do your kick counts will encourage you to rest and bond with your baby. Start by finding a comfortable position during a time when your baby is usually most active. Some moms prefer sitting in a well supported position with their arms holding their bellies. Other moms prefer lying on their left sides, which they find most comfortable and most effective for monitoring their babies. Lying on your left side also allows for the best circulation which could lead to a more active baby.


The American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) recommends that you time how long it takes you to feel 10 kicks, flutters, swishes, or rolls. Ideally, you want to feel at least 10 movements within 2 hours. You will likely feel 10 movements in less time than that.

 

You might want to start a notebook or use the various charts below. In a notebook, record the time you feel the first fetal movement, place a check mark for each movement you feel until you reach 10, then record the time of the tenth movement. This will help you observe patterns and discover how long it normally takes for your baby to move 10 times. Keep in mind that you are looking for significant deviations from the pattern.

It can become easy to expect an exact amount of time every time you do your kick counts; however, there can be a wide range of time differences. So remember to look for significant deviations from the pattern over the course of a few days.

When Should I Call My Physician Or Midwife?

  • If you have followed the above recommendations and have not felt 10 kicks by the end of the second hour, wait a few hours and try again. If after trying a second time, you do not feel 10 movements within 2 hours you should contact your health care provider.

  • If you notice a significant deviation from the pattern over the course of 3-4 days.

More information, including a kick count chart visit this site: http://americanpregnancy.org/while-pregnant/kick-counts/

Break the Silence ...

"If you know someone who has lost a child

and you're afraid to mention them because

you think you might make them sad

by reminding them that they died,

they didn't forget they died.

You're not reminding them.

What you're reminding them of​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

is that you remember that they lived,

and that's a great, great gift."

 

 - Elizabeth Edwards

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